The post I made, I did not try to make you out like the bad guy. I stated that I stormed out. I showed the screenshots where I said it was a mistake to do that, and that I definitely should of given you more opportunities to get involved socially rather than just expecting you to do it. When I was talking about what happened, because it was written by me, it was sure to have some details that you didn't agree with or thought should've been written differently, and that's 100% to be expected and I acknowledge every bit that you pointed out. You asked me why I wrote a couple of things and I'm gonna talk about those.

So first you asked me about why I wrote you were on your phone the majority of the time. Here, it's useless for me to just say "because you were" because like everything else I ever say, it's an opinion and it's not fact. It was my opinion that you were on your phone the majority of the time, yeah. Dinner came, we ate, you pulled out your phone and you were on it for the remainder of the evening, and that was the majority of the evening, there was much more time after the dinner than before it. So, that's why I wrote that. The next thing you said was about Aisha on her phone, which is also rude, yeah. But not who we're talking about. You said about Tom not being in the room which can be considered rude, yeah, but he's also not who we're talking about. Neither of them are in this relationship and it's not my nor your problem what they're doing. And while I'm on this - keeping on bringing them up is just derailing. It sounds like a lot of "yeah I did this but Aisha... but Tom..." basically anyone but yourself. You keep failing to acknowledge that you did anything wrong, anywhere, and you instead point your finger at as many others as possible. Not even 200 comments with thousands of upvotes can convince you that you did something wrong somewhere. From here on, I want you to just try your best to keep this about mine and your behaviour on Christmas Day and after. So the next thing you said in your message was how I said I gently brought it up - I should've definitely put in that I was annoyed on our journey back and for a while in the hotel room, I'm sorry for not adding that because I can see how it makes the situation look like I approached you when you were the one that approached me by asking me what was up. It was here where you got defensive by telling me you weren't on your phone a lot, you're not a social butterfly, etc. The dismissiveness came after that when you went back on your phone and were barely replying when I spoke to you. So yeah, that's an explanation for everything you underlined in the post. And before I move on to the first voice message, I want to tell you why I made the post in the first place. When we were in Malaysia and we had that huge fight over how I wasn't okay with the fact that I was gonna be there by myself, and got my mum involved, and wasted our last night by just having a big long unnecessary breakdown. I couldn't see any of that before I posted about it. And I posted because I was certain that I was right, and you were being evil, and it took the opinions of strangers to show me that hey, I'm being a huge cunt. It was like having a session with Joe, the therapist, for free. It was extremely helpful and it allowed me to swallow my pride, and apologise, and show you that I could see sense and win you back, essentially. Because like Joe, these people were unbiased, they could see both sides, and that's what needed to happen, I needed to be shown both sides. I was completely in the wrong. In this situation right now, you need to see both sides. But while I tried to write it as true as I could, yeah I can see how it lacks some context, and a lot of the replies might be different had I written it better. However there's some replies in there that are valid and don't require the context of our whole relationship for you to be able to look at them and go, yeah that is kind of true. But you're coming across like you cannot or will not consider the possibility that any of these people have a point, and there are thousands.