☝🏿 Copy and paste Format to chat from site till he pays 

Contents 

✔️ ✔️How to chat on dating site 

✔️About me and my family 

✔️Where you live 

✔️Profession detailed 

✔️Questions and Answers about yourself and relationships 

✔️How to bill and take your first confirmation 

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☝🏿BASIC QUESTIONS YOU WILL ASK AND ANSWER ABOUT YOURSELF TOO 

On Dating Site 

🪔Find a conversation starter 

Examples ➿Did you have a long day today ?? 

➿What are your plans for the evening ? 

➿I love your profile picture where was the picture taken 

➿can we have coffee together 

After he replies 

➿Ask if hes has any luck on here ?? 

NB that will make you know if he’s been on the site for long , knows scam or is worth chatting . 

➿Ask whats he’s looking for on here?  

Your answer 

Nothing much just someone honest and caring and we see how it goes 

➿Ask how long he has been single and if he has any kids 

Your answer 

I have no kids and I’ve been single for three years now and I’ve just not been ready just trying to find someone matured who wants something serious and not just fun . 

➿Ask him what he does for a living 

Your answer 

I’m a fashion consultant or Beautician or Cosmetologist . 

➿Ask whats his ideal woman 

Your answer 

My ideal man is just a simple caring man who has a great sense of humor , is smart and intelligent and cultured but aside all knows how to show love and romance and make a woman feel cherished and appreciated 

Chat him a little more 

▶️How to get his contact 

You sound nice and fun can you give me your contact so we chat more privately and share some pics , 

QUESTIONS ABOUT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 

🕷Where are you from ? 

🦇I was born in Europe to an American Dad and My mom is from Europe ( UK , Scotland , Germany , Canada ) 

I came here as a teenager and I have lived here for 20 years . 

About your MOM /AUNT 

💼Plot Scroll down for its billing way 

Moms age must be 64-75

My mom is sick with Parkinson’s Disease or Azheirmer Disease or Dementia which requires her to need the help of a private CSA nurse . 

PLOT

Either your mom lives with you or she lives in another state with the nurse taking care of her . 

Or 

If your mom lives with you , Make sure the distance between you and the client is 4 or more hours . 

About your Dad 

My dad is dead and I have few distant relatives I haven’t met or know of . 

Have you ever been married before or got any kids ? 

🕷I’ve not been married before and I got no kids yet . I guess I didn’t find the right person for all this 

Will you like to have any kids in future 

🕷I’ve not ruled the idea out so if you want to have kids too we can surely make some . 

Where do you live ? 

PLOT 

Either you live in the same state with him and your mom lives in the next border state 

For eg you live in Newyork and your mom lives in Ohio , Pennsylvania. ETC 

Do you live in a house or apartment , Do you have a roommate 

🕷I live in an apartment with no roommate 

PLOT 

If you use your aunt in the format both of your parents are dead . 

More Simple Questions 

🕷What is your profession 

I’m a fashion consultant Or 

I’m a beautician and Cosmetologist

🕷Do you drive ? 

I don’t drive because of the accident my dad suffered it scares me , but I think I will try one day with good supervision 

 🕷What are you looking in your partner 

Someone smart and intelligent , someone who likes honest and loyal , one that can show affection , passionate and very romantic . Someone who wants to try new things and someone who puts their lady as a priority .. 

🕷Do you love cooking 

Not much because I my work schedule but I cook when I have free time 

🕷What type of foods do you like ? 

Pizza , Sandwich , Grilled beefs and Lots of leaves and vegetables and seafoods 

🕷What are your interests 

I love reading , I love to understand nature and I love to help people when and I like to travel and I like to try continental dishes with my partner 

🕷What do you do for fun 

I love country music , relax and exercise a little and just watch the news and some good historic movies 

🕷what are your hobbies 

Swimming , playing tennis , etc 

🕷what are favorite shows on Tv 

Basketball , NFL , Oprah , History channel , Etc 

🕷Do you drink / smoke or do Drugs 

I do drink red wine occasionally, I don’t smoke or do drugs 

🕷what are your likes and dislikes 

I love loyal , honest , smart and kind individuals , I hate being cheated on , treated like an option and being a second choice 

🕷What is your educational background 

And what did you study 

I studied communications and information studies but couldn’t complete unfortunately due to some personal circumstances 

PROFESSION 

If he asks you to Explain about your Profession . 

🕷Fashion Consultant 

I work privately online at home and customers houses . It’s just some friends partnership , we review lots of clients dresses and designs and offer lots of counseling to upcoming fashion designing at a fee . 

🕷Beautician/ Cosmetologists 

I deal with foreign hair and cosmetics and also make good choices on customers preferences and the right products to use for their skin and hair . 

You work privately at home sometimes and a wide range of people during pageants and some shows . 

How much do you make a month / Year and how do you make money 

🕷I make about 3-5k a month depending on how many reviews i make and counselling i do , I also have permanent customers who also pays whether I offer services or not , which is at a good charge for them too . 

I make about 36,000-40,000 dollars a year . 

How did you learn your profession 

🕷I actually learnt most as a kid from a family friend and I did it practical and vocationally and made it professional myself after some years 

How long have you been in your profession 

🕷Almost all my life but took it as a profession few years ago 

What are your passion in life 

🕷I love fashion and I’m obsessed about dress and hairstyles and how people change their appearance and how it affects how a person fits in a group of people or how their looks affects their confidence and emotions 

🐍 Relationship QUESTIONS/ANSWERS 🐍

Regardless of where you live now, where would you most like to live? 

🕷A suburd , The countryside with the peace and serene nature and composed neighbors . 

In addition to love and affection, what are your main reasons for wanting a relationship? 

🕷Well having a partner i can trust, one I can get back home and smile at , one I will be secured and feel safe with and someone who brights my morning with their kisses and lovely gestures .. life is easy with a partner

What is most likely to make you interested in someone? 

🕷Looks and appearance fade away and even though that is a considerate point I want someone with a kind heart , smart and intelligent and is ready to face risks even if he fails . 

Why do you think you're single? 

🕷I have not had much good luck with men , most just want to flirt and have fun and all I’ve yearned for is a matured experienced man ready to share life together and make each other a priority 

If you find a book or article particularly interesting, do you want your partner to read it as well?

🕷Of course I want to share all the gists and lessons and will love to discuss what I read with my partner and listen to his amazing opinions 

Suppose you lived in a two-bedroom apartment with your partner, what would the sleeping arrangement be?

🕷I sleep at the left side and he takes the right side of me in one bedroom , I want to wake up to his smile and kisses 

How do you react to lovesickness?

🕷I know it’s sad not to have your partner feel the same way about you or share the same intense feelings but I’m ready to relax and build love slowly since I know peoples pasts affect how they give in to love sometimes 

What do you think about cheating in a relationship? 

🕷Cheating is never Ok!! I will like you to be straight with me and tell me it’s over than go through the taboo of cheating . Loyalty is an important qualities I seek for in my partner 

What do you want your partner to like about you?

🕷I just want him to like my simple nature , understand me and just love me being reserved, affectionate,cheerful, honest,warm-hearted, independent 

Which of the following do your friends and family think about you? 

🕷Always optimistic and always finds a good solution for herself ,even in unpleasant situations

What do you think is most important in a relationship? 

🕷Accepting our imperfections, not examining everything in depth.

What do you think is most important in a relationship? 

🕷Making each other a priority and putting each other’s needs first and just making loyalty and honesty our mantra 

What do you like to do in your free time?

🕷reading, relaxing, litening to music, going to the theater

What kinds of hobbies do you have? 

🕷cooking,music,sports,art,photography, History

What kinds of sports or activities do you do?

🕷Playing tennis , exercising 

How often do you workout/play sports?

🕷When I’m less busy 

What type of music do you like to listen to? 

🕷Opera,country, r&b,Classics, 

What kinds of vacations do you like to take? 

🕷Beach vacation, staycation, spa vacation etc

How do you plan your vacations? 

🕷i plan them far in advance and schedule everything

💼How to Bill / Billing Way 

Billing starts when he’s fallen good and desperate to see you . 

PLOT 

Since your mom /aunt is sick with one of this disease Azheirmer , Dementia , Parkinson . She always require a CSA private nurse to cook , give her medication, therapy , bath her sometimes and entertain her a bit .. 

So the billing is simple 

Billing way 1️⃣

If you live with your Mom/Aunt 

🕷Honey I need to find a CSA nurse for mom so they can take care of her and I can come to you . I can’t live her alone , She can’t shower or do basic stuffs herself so i need to get the nurse who looks after her when im away or busy with work . 

I’m a little down on money and I will need about 2-4K to pay for her nurse services so she can take care of her for some months so we can start our life together . 

Billing way 2️⃣

If your aunt/mom lives in another state . 

🦇PLOT 

Let the client know she’s been recovering from Parkinson or Azheirmer or Dementia at the beginning. 

Start it after he falls and wants you to come to him then bring the emergency call 

You had a call from your moms neighbor her sickness seems to be back because she’s been walking weird and can’t even cook or shower so you need to rush come see her then afterwards fly to him directly 

You take an emergency flight and get there . 

▶️How to bill 

Honey moms not feeling good she needs her private CSA nurse to help her and support and help her take care of herself because she hardly remembers what she just said a moment ago . 

But the nurse needs about 2-4K and I’m really short on money can you help me a bit I will really appreciate that . So I can fly back to you as we planned

Client Base 

🕷 Friends and some few models and upcoming fashion designers.

How do you feel about dating a married man ?

      🕷 Well I don’t really mind. If there’s a form of hope for me and you then why not. I just want someone understanding that I can know and take it from there and if he’s married and wants to try something new or escape, of course it’s no problem for me. We can take it slow and give each other some form of joy.

If he says that you need to live with your mom

🕷 My mom wants to see me start a family so that’s not a problem. I can always visit here whenever , so if you want me that’s not any problem at all. I always move around when I want to work and she does great with her private nurse so if you are into me , that’s not something to stress about. My mo keeps bugging me about making my own family.

🕷 She wants me to be so happy and of course I’m not getting any younger , I just want to enjoy life with you so much. I desire you.

  🕷 Honey , I must say that you’re a gentle and sweet man to talk about that and that’s prudent, also mom has always wished to see me settling and just looking at my own little family so I must say of course I will miss her but she’s going to love it even more when she’s got her full care. Thanks for listening 👂 to me. You are sweet darling.

Do you take customers on their hours , morning , day and night ?

   🕷 Depends dear. Usually schedule appointment several times in a month.

How to convince him not to go back to the dating site .... 

    🕷 I’m glad to have met you and I hope that we can focus on each other better and put in our efforts because I’m quitting the dating site and focusing fully on you, you sound exciting and I want to get to know all about you and I hope that you do the same.

When he doubts about the money 

    🕷 Honey daily charges are pretty expensive , so she’s going to take care of her through few months until this virus calms down , that’s why she’s taking in that much which is a pretty fair deal and also I can move and deal with my personal life and enjoy my life with you too.

When he start to get excited about you

    🕷 It’s definitely going to get better and even easier as we have been able to connect our chemistry and I think we are learning more about each other and that’s just a great step for us. I’m so glad that you really took the chance for us. I’m going to put my effort into making this a good thing.

How long your mom been ill 😷 

   🕷 Almost five years now but lot of supportive care and medications her symptoms are pretty mild and she’s quite better than the beginning. It’ll be alright.

Why’s her insurance not taking care of her 

    🕷 Her insurance takes care of her medical emergencies and medications. This is a supportive care we give her because she needs lot of complete attention and personal care maintaining her memory and her daily activities and the CNA nurse has been great helping her condition turn mild it’s good.

Kids doubt 

   🕷 Having kids is not a necessity for me. I just want someone I can smile and enjoy life with. At this point I just want someone I can call mine only , be at peace and live a life we all desire. So I don’t think the topic of kids should trouble you sweetheart .

When he still insists on coming to see you 

    🕷 I work everyday and sometimes I even forget to eat. I have a lot of workload on me which I have to finish and besides we’re not allowed to go out.

    🕷 Honey, I’m a lady if I say that we should relax so I organize myself and we meet , I think you should access it deep and understand me. I’m not going nowhere. We can make this happen in a week or so , we will work on it so just be patient.

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I want someone simple , smart and caring , someone I can laugh and smile with , someone with a good sense of humor and understands life and just want to be happy with no conditions nor restrictions. I just want that happy face that will grace my mornings with happiness and a will to keep moving in our current world of pain. 

I work as a Fashion consultant for a private firm. 

I review lots of private customers dresses and designs then offer lots of counseling to upcoming fashion designers. I also write reports during particular pageants. It’s a private firm, we got some high class customers who calls when they need advice and do lots of the recommendations online.

Due to the outbreak I work from home by reviewing clothes and offering advice. Recommending new dresses , offering my advice and selecting future designs. Also making selections for some of my private individual customers. I do all this from home through emails. 

I have a faulty phone but I haven’t been able to change it because it have all my work files that I haven’t been able to backup yet so I’ll loose everything if I should change this phone today but I will look into it and change it sometime soon. My work files are my life and I’m working on getting them secured first. I have an old tablet for my work as well.

I can actually afford a new phone but my work files and everything is on my phone and it’s pretty important so after I figure them out I’ll do that. I can’t loose my work tools.

Flowers are better handed to in person with a hug and it shows more affection and romance so I’ll suggest that you wait until I come there then you can give me a romantic treat with a flower.

I don’t use Snapchat nor really have time for social media. I don’t find it safe and it’s a web for anything harmful. I joined the dating site by a friend’s recommendation. I just read, watch my news and focus on the natural world. I hope that y type of personality doesn’t bother you. 

Haven’t got any pics of her now because of my faulty phone I lost lots of her pictures , she’s sick and I don’t want to stress her but after she gets better I will send you tons of her. She’s pretty old fashioned. 

With the social distancing policy and outbreak , delivering stuffs like that to her isn’t safe because she’s vulnerable to the virus so he should relax and let her be out of danger first.

My mom’s ailment been ripping me off and I been low a bit on money if not then I would be just fine and this has slowed my work too. 

It’s the City hospital my love 

It’s so busy here because of the outbreak and the doctors are so occupied and they said I should just make the payment myself because they have to update their systems because of the outbreak and my mom also need immediate isolation and care. 

My mom need immediate treatment and isolation and it’s just stressful with this outbreak to get her records so please just try and get me the help I need so they treat her as fast as they can.

Damn, I’m ravishingly yearning for you, I want you to touch and I want you to rub and fill every inch of my body with your hands filled with oil. 

I want you to take over my soul , I want you to taste me and tell me how good I feel. 

I want you to look into my eyes and I want you to tell me I’m the best thing to ever happen to you my king.

When we get together there are so many things I want to do. I want to please you, I want to work on your body like the piece of art you are , I want to let you feel like the King you are , I want to ravish and burn our desires together .

I’m going to awaken you , I’m going to open all closed doors , I’m going to drive you on an intense level , I’m going to make you want me everytime , I want to explore you and feel so aroused whenever I come close to you , I want to turn you on to your highest key , then I just want to love you and tell you I love you without saying it but just showing it and engulf your day bring you to Washington ocean of intense romance and affection.

A client tells you he want to speak to the nurse and pay blah blah 

🕷 Solution (blast him this way )

So if you don’t trust me and what I say about my mom and you need to confirm cos of your trust issues , do we even have any relationship.. Why the heck do you think I would even play or joke with my mom sickness .. 

If you can’t get money to me or her as I suggest please stop it . If you don’t trust my story no need moving on with this relationship ..

🕷 If he asks if your mom don’t have a retirement benefit or your dad’s 

        She doesn’t have that here , my dad was an English man so that’s something she’s not entitled here , I’m the one who take absolute care of her

If he still insist on coming to see you since you can’t leave your sick aunt/mom behind.

🕷 It’s not safe for you to come to me because my aunt is vulnerable to the virus and she’s rarely exposed to strangers besides it’s very disrespectful to invade her privacy in her condition now. The best option is to get the nurse the payment and then I’ll be able to fly to you.

 If he asks why I don’t take unemployment benefit.

🕷 You know I still work a little for some personal clients online and I can’t file that whiles I’m still able to do some work. I might get to working full time soon and the private insurance hold claims and assist emergency medical attention so there’s no need losing more of it just because of some slight unemployment benefits.

IF HE HAVE DOUBTS PAYING BECAUSE HE HASN’T MEET YET IN PERSON

🕷 Not every couple or individuals find their partner the normal way, if it was all easy then I don’t think you would come online for the start of the things you just talked about instead of walking around since it sounds easier to you.If we don’t get acquainted and understand each other better how will our first meeting lead to any success. Stop talking about looks, with your experience I think you should be acute at that topic,it’s more of what is in a person’s heart than just looks. There’s no reason other than getting to know each other and seeing how things go from there. If you feel it’s delicate, well I understand and I think walking on the streets should be helpful than searching online. But if not, then I think you should relax and let’s make plans and get to spend time together.

IF HE ASKS “ HOW DO I KNOW THAT YOU’RE REAL “

🕷 I’m matured and too grown for games and I have no motive of lying to you or pretending to be someone that I’m not.

WHEN HE HAVE DOUBTS ABOUT AGE GAP 

🕷 Age is not an issue, there’s more to a relationship than just age. I’ve always wanted a matured man with lots of experience who is certain of what he needs and covet. I’ve been through some rough times with men of my age group and all I can conclude is what’s in a person’s heart that matters the most and the little things they do to make you feel cherished,wanted and desired. We can get through this together and make our future worth it.

            SOME ASSURANCES / TRUSTS 

🕷 Like I assured you the other time , I’m not here for games nor anything like that. I can promise you that I’ll never hurt you nor I’m trying to make fun of you in anyway at all. I’ll always be honest , sincere and truthful to you always as well as faithful all the time

🕷 As long as you’re pleased to be with me truly and happily, then I’ll also live with you forever without any problems nor arguments. Even if we ever get into argument , we will be able to compromise to understanding and live happily thereafter

🕷 There’s no need nor no point in keeping secrets from your partner nor hiding things from someone that you love. When I fall in love I believe that everything is with both parties and that’s how we make decisions

🕷 We do everything together so we enjoy every moment with each other regardless of the situation either good or bad we will always be together forever

🕷 The only things that could come between us would be death 💀 even at the afterlife we will be together again

🕷 I haven’t known you for a long time but I feel like I’ve known you forever now. That is a sign telling me something is going on between us although we aren’t together in person but I believe we’re already together in spirit of which I’m grateful for